Monday, October 29, 2012

Potty Training a Seven Month Old

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If you're a regular here you'll know that we haven't had an easy time with H's toilet training. You see, we figured that we'd been through this before, we were all cocky and confident that it'd be smooth sailing. Boy were we wrong! So I put out the call, TELL ME A BETTER WAY! I cried. And from the comment section of that very post I heard a voice, a voice that said I should start potty training A now

Once upon a time I would have told you that potty training a seven month old sounded insane. But, once upon a time I thought homebirth was crazy too. I guess I've become more open minded. Big Bro calls me a hippie now, not sure if I should be offended or not. Knowing him and his own definition of the word, I'm sure there's a bit of mud-slinging going on, but watevs. At least he's stopped calling me fatty.

So I took my dear friend's advice and I bought me a Roger Armstrong Potty Chair! That was no easy feat by the way. We visited 2 baby stores who said they no longer stocked them. So we ordered it online after my friend said that she found it on special (score!) only to be told that it was out of stock, unless we wanted a different colour. Colour? It's a bloody potty chair, I don't care what friggin colour it is! I politely told the customer service girl. 

Potty training
Day 1: A woke up, had a breastfeed and then I popped her on the chair. She's always on the move and didn't want to be stuck on there, so it was a struggle. I don't like upsetting her but we managed to distract her long enough for her to do a wee. The 4 of us clapped and cheered and she grinned like "What's the joke guys? What did I miss?" We put her on it before and after naps and before bed time but we only had one wee that first day.

Day 2: Same routine again, though this time she managed two wee's. Now I feel the need to add here, we only put her on it as long as she was happy, and once she started to get upset we took her off. We figured if it works, then awesome, if it doesn't, no big deal.

Potty training 7 month old
Day 3: After her feed in the morning I sat her on the potty and she poo'd! I have never been so excited about a poo in my life. I cheered and clapped and she cheered and clapped and H looked downright depressed. (Hilariously, he came up to me later and said "I do poo in toilet" in his most serious voice, then walked into the bathroom with such determination that I struggled to keep a straight face. He did his business without a problem, he obviously didn't want to be shown up by his little sister!) That day, every time I sat A on the potty, she wee'd.

I won't bore you by detailing the entire week, but I will tell you this; after only a week of potty training we are using less nappies. She's happy to sit on there and not needing to sit for long, sometimes peeing within seconds of sitting down and then grinning her goofy grin at us. She has poo'd on it 4 times, and the poo's that didn't go into the potty... well... I think that was our fault? You might think I'm reading too much into it but there were several occasions when she climbed up my leg whinging and I couldn't figure out what was wrong, then after a few minutes she poo'd. I'm sure she was trying to tell me that she needed to go!

Potty training baby
The only problem I'm having is the lack of consistency. We've been out and about a bit and I haven't taken the potty with us, so I'm worried that by having days where she hardly gets put on it at all she might get confused. I dunno. But I'm enjoying it. I think it's less stressful this way because I KNOW that she is just a baby, and that if she doesn't use the potty then it's perfectly fine, whereas with H, HE KNOWS how to use the toilet at that he SHOULD be using it but just won't do it, and that does my head in. 

But I'm excited, the thought of having both A and H out of nappies before we have another baby is just fabulous. Economical. Awesome.


And so ends yet another toilet training post. Perhaps I should start a toilet training series?
And I'm interested to know, is there anyone out there (Hello? Echo echo echo...) who's tried this?


29 comments:

  1. Wow! I am really interested to see how this goes.

    Great for H to see it too, really good encouragement for him.

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    1. I was a little worried that it might be damaging to his self esteem, but it seems to be more encouraging :)

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  2. Still in two minds, for the reasons we have spoken of, the fact that the kid just won't sit still, and as you say, for consistencies sake. I am yet to talk to Dave about it but I will see what he says. My only issue is going to be the days I am at work and not at home to put her on. I mentioned it to one of her carers and I got that look as if to say "Ok, whatever you think, but I won't be wasting my time doing it when you're not here". *sigh*.

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    1. Sounds like you need some new carers. KIDDING! Or am I?

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  3. WHOOTTS!!! Exciting Poop News for sure! My bub is almost 9 mths and I havent thought of potty training her. Mainly cause I have never heard of potty training a bub so young and it just never crossed my mind. Good on you though if that's what you do. You have definitely popped the idea in my mind now (nearly typed 'pooped') x

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    1. I have heard of a different style - elimination communication - but I hadn't heard of potty training at this age (with the exception of my one friend). Loving it so far! x

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  4. Hehehehe!! The only way I can relate to this is that we are training our puppy (Horatio) to pee and poo on the puppy training mat!! hehehe!!! He's doing very well... and he's only 11 weeks old!! We do the same thing - when he pee's on the mat, we all clap and say "good boy"!!! Bahhaahah!! How I can relate to this story!! LOL

    Keep writing Kel... I love the stories!! :) And good luck H and A with the potty training! Hopefully H will start to do it more often now that his little sis is doing it too!! :)

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    1. Thanks love!
      Hahaha I have to meet Horatio!

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  5. wow... interesting concept.. definitely one to consider!! My daughter 3 yrs old only just out of nappies.. and even then we occasionally put it on if we're going on a long cartrip etc...

    She refused to potty.. from 8 months old.

    Hoping my son will be more happier to use the toilet/potty seeing his sister do it!

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    1. You're perhaps the first person that HASN'T said to me "Girls are easier", thankyou!
      Hopefully you have more success with your son.

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  6. Sounds like you have a great perspective and attitude about everything -and that it is going well for you! hooray !

    #teamIBOT

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  7. I have heard of people "potty-training" from birth, following bub's cues and so on. It really does seem to work well for some. With me having (almost) 4 kids under 5, it is definitely not for me (I'm not attentive enough!). Hope it works for you though!

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    1. Yes! I've read about this and watched some awesome youtube videos but I couldn't try that (elimination communication). This is just more like early toilet training, without the sticker charts!
      Thank you x

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  8. Good for you! I started my youngest two on the potty at about the same age and would do the same again. It is still a long slow process but well worth it I say. Also I wouldn't doubt that she was telling you about the poo. I had a similar experience. Fairy wishes and butterfly kisses

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    1. Yay, someone else who's done it! Thanks so much Rhianna, it's nice to know that not EVERYONE thinks we're crazy. x

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  9. this process is long, slow, filled with great moments when you think its going to be done and dusted really soon - then its back to square one
    my eldest was a nightmare to train
    my youngest, seemed to get the hang of it all by himself, with very little help from anyone
    stick with - WHATEVER works
    xxx

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    1. They are all different, which is both a joy and a burden! More a joy though.
      Hopefully my youngest is like your youngest!
      Thank you x

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  10. God your good. E is 8 months as of yesterday and I could not imagine trying her on the potty yet- I must say its awesome through and I hope it works for you. I would love to know how it works out for you and beautiful A. She is GORGEOUS xx

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    1. Thanks hun. It's not as difficult or time consuming as it seems. I'll definitely keep you posted. And we both breed gorgeous babies! xx

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  11. That is impressive! I've heard a bit about people doing these things before, but never heard of so much success with it. That's awesome!

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    1. After I published this today she had another poo on the potty. It is HILARIOUS to watch hahaha.

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  12. Wow - great concept - will be interested to see how it goes. My mum's child health book from when she was a baby (so in the 50s) gives rules about looking after babies and it actually says that from 8 weeks you should start putting them on a potty after each feed - interesting :)

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  13. Mum was telling me that, that during the time my grandma was growing up, (she was born 1923) that they usually started potting training them at this age and even earlier, it was just something they did, wonder when it changed!

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  14. A friend of my sisters trained her twins this way - consistency was totally the key though, they were so routine driven which totally wouldn't have worked in my house! Good luck.

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  15. I laughed about you cheering. Totally relating! :) 'grats. :)

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  16. Boyo used to crawl over to the nappy change bag whenever he did a poo from about this age. I should have done somethign about it then because he definitely knew when he needed to go. But I'd recently invested in MCN and didn't want to waste my investment! :)

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